While Ms. Kondo admits that parting with emotional objects can be hard, it is possible to clear them without guilt. Sharing her beloved storage ideas exclusively with H&G, Marie reveals how to achieve any organized home whilst preserving the memories of a loved one.
Marie Kondo’s tips for clearing sentimental items
‘The big fear we all have is that if we throw away these objects, we will somehow be losing the precious memories and legacy that goes with them. That is not the case – truly precious memories will never vanish even if you discard things associated with them,’ Marie says. But how do you achieve this mindset? The answer, Marie suggests, is found when you ask yourself if something ‘sparks joy.’ ‘When we have a clearout, most of us tend to focus on what we’re going to throw away, but what we should concentrate on instead is what we’re going to keep,’ she says. ‘The ultimate test to whether to keep it or not is to ask yourself, does this object spark joy in my heart?’. Marie suggests that you should be able to ‘hold on to the sentimental item with confidence,’ and if not, it is time to let it go. However, unlike her other living room storage ideas, throwing away sentimental items requires an extra step. ‘When letting go of an item associated with a lot of memories, it’s important to say a heartfelt thank you. Giving sincere thanks to an item will significantly reduce or even eliminate any guilt you may feel when you decide that you will no longer have it in your home,’ she explains. And, for the sentimental items that you decide to keep, Marie reinforces an important step from her living room and kitchen storage ideas. She highlights the importance of finding a permanent home for your object – to ensure your space remains organized long after cleaning. ‘Try keeping them in a nice box or album and storing them in a place that sparks joy, like a bookshelf or coffee table,’ Marie suggests. She adds that her favorite sentimental organizers are the Sentimental Wedding Box (opens in new tab), Canvas Half-Wall Komono Organizer (opens in new tab), Momento Organizer (opens in new tab), and Papers and Komono Organizer (opens in new tab). Plus, Marie offers her advice for disregarding pieces sustainably – suggesting that you look towards ethical resources including The Junkluggers (opens in new tab), Terracycle (opens in new tab), Freecycle (opens in new tab)and Earth911 (opens in new tab). ‘You can also refer to our Discarding Guide (opens in new tab),’ Marie adds. Now it’s time we get organized.
